I want you begin to learn to take a different approach with regards to the game and how you actually play it.
No matter how bad the team is, you should play for the TEAM. Learn to put the Team first no matter how painful that may sound. Believe me, it builds character. There are so many players who have been playing for themselves all of their teen-age life, and then get to the next level and someone says “Play to Win” and they don’t know how. Its sad but so prevalent now a days. That’s what showcasing will do to a player. Playing in tournaments with no trophies or games ending in a tie.
1, Everything you do should be because you want to help the team win.
2. Never play for stats. Stats will come in the process of helping the team win.
3. Never play to compete with what someone else did. You can only be you. Trying to be someone else will cause you to fail at being you. Besides, originals are always better than carbon copies. I never try to compete with other coaches. Nobody can be a better me than me. And I certainly don’t wanna be anything of them. Lol.
I guess I am concerned with what motivates you. Baseball and Softball are not like golf or tennis. Those are individual sports. When you play softball it is not about you. It’s about the team. It’s not about your stats but about your contribution to the win. So if you didn’t get any hits, then play some great defense. And if you’re having a terrible day in all areas, then cheer your teammates on. It’s really no about YOU! For your parents, its all about you, but don’t take on their mindset. You cannot afford to. You can find a way to help the team win from the bench.
When I ask a player what position they play, I can get 2 types of answers.
1. “I play shortstop, coach”
2. or “I will play wherever you need me to Coach.”
That was always my answer.
Getting upset for more than 10 minutes about whatever has already happened is immature, selfish, and unbecoming of a good player. Good players know that there are ups and downs and they are perfect examples of pure sportsmanship –through it all. The good and the bad. The ups and the downs.
I need all my hitters to grow up -right now. And stop being babies about every little thing. Live by these words, “Get it done!” some bitters don’t grow up until their 3rd year in college. They end up wasting 2 years when they could have grew up in HS. This has nothin to do with talent. This is a about ATTITUDE, the one thing we all can truly control.
1. You don’t like your coach
Then quit
2. The pitching is too slow
Well someone is hitting it. Why not you? Are you so terrible that you can’t adjust?
3. Stop being so emotional for 2 hours and when the game is over you can go back to being a big baby. There are just way too many players who are good but will never be great because they don’t have a winning appproach.
-Rob Crews














